It Hurts to Be This Sexy 2004-03-29 | 9:56 p.m. Identity and crushes I got the best email from my Drag Crush today, wherein ze said that ze wished there was a talking stuffed toy of me that could stay in Boston and be entertaining. Hello, top ten really great things you can hear from someone you're crushed out on. It's not intended as a mutual crush thing so much as a Drag Crush is really super wonderful thing, but I think that's okay, because wonderful people are good enough to make me smile a little.
There are two new pages of thesis written, which is two more pages than there were yesterday. I am still working, but obviously not diligently. It's baby steps for me.
I just had an amazing conversation with Skirt Girl about femme identity and queerness and all sorts of very intellectually stimulating things. Mostly we talked about the community around here, and the ways that queers tend to exclude femmes. She's been reading a lot of books about femme identity, and the conversation made me want to do the same. It's funny, because all my identity is on the inside, all squishing around with itself, and I don't think it comes out in what I wear (or perhaps how I carry myself) at all.
I may take an informal poll to find out how people characterize me in binary terms--butch or femme. Whatever shall the outcome be? Any comments to further this search may be left in the guestbook.
~~ID me~~
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